Saturday, September 02, 2006

Tired and Busy?

Caryn came across this book called, "When I Relax I Feel Guilty" by Tim Hansel. This guy started Summit Expeditions, now called Summit Adventures. Anyway, I think it is a very appropriate book for out culture...and for me. Here is an excerpt I read this morning:

Tim Hansel writes, "Some of us need to read the following letter written by an anonymous friar in a monastery in Nebraska late in his life. We probably not only need to read it, but we need to allow it to seep down into the marrow of our tired and serious bones.

'If I had my life to live over again, I'd try to make more mistakes next time.

I would relax, I would limber up, I would be sillier than I have been this trip.

I know of very few things I would take seriously.

I would take more trips. I would be crazier.

I would climb more mountains, swim more rivers, and watch more sunsets.

I would do more walking and looking.

I would eat more ice cream and less beans.

I would have more actual troubles, and fewer imaginary ones.

You see, I'm one of those people who lives life prophylactically and sensibly hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I've had my moments, and if I had to do it over again I'd have more of them.

In fact, I'd try to have nothing else, just moments, one after another, instead of living so many ahead each day. I've been one of those people who never go anywhere without a thermometer, a hot-water bottle, a gargle, a raincoat, aspirin, and a parachute.

If I had to do it over again I would go places, do things, and travel lighter than I have.

If I had my life to live over I would start barefooted earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall.

I would play hookey more.

I wouldn't make such good grades, except by accident.

I would ride on more merry-go-rounds.

I'd pick more daises.'"

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I feel and live the title of that book...gotta get it. Can I be productive for God in my unproductivity? For my family? I feel like I should always be serving...where does this come from?

bazeblog said...

mindy... i thought the same thing when i found this book in our resource center & just had to read it -- SO glad i did! the author would answer "yes" to your first 2 questions... but he would also have a different view than most people of "unproductivity"... to your 3rd question, i'd say it often comes from the great deceiver of our hearts: keeping us so busy with things to do for God that we miss God Himself... most days i let myself believe this lie. btw: there are some really cheap used copies of the book on amazon.com... it's a GREAT family book, with lots of ideas for "productive" relaxation -- the kind that brings us closer to God.

Anonymous said...

Received my book from a discount ebay shop yesterday! Can't wait to dive in! Thanks for the lead!

bazeblog said...

can't wait to hear what you think of it!! i just read another book by hansel called "you gotta keep dancin'" -- an amazing story of how he's learned to choose joy in the midst of chronic pain after a terrible accident.