So this is Caryn at 5 months. I know what you are thinking, it is the same thing everyone here is saying..."she doesn't even look pregnant!" She is though. The proof is inside...this baby is active and is destined for the World Cup! Not sure what Caryn thinks about it...but she is so pretty pregnant that we may have to have at least one more...
Friday, April 20, 2007
five months
So this is Caryn at 5 months. I know what you are thinking, it is the same thing everyone here is saying..."she doesn't even look pregnant!" She is though. The proof is inside...this baby is active and is destined for the World Cup! Not sure what Caryn thinks about it...but she is so pretty pregnant that we may have to have at least one more...
Thursday, April 19, 2007
adventures.... elsewhere
All that's left to do now (after we sell, give away, & pack up our "Thai" life) is to find a new name for the blog... any suggestions?
The winner gets their picture posted.
Thursday, April 05, 2007
halfway there...
we just got back from the doc's where we saw Baby B floating around on the ultrasound screen sucking in amniotic fluid through its little lips & wiggling tiny fingers... B would not hold still for the camera, but was otherwise very well-behaved & growing right on schedule (though mom needs to gain some more weight).
in light of this, we celebrated with caryn's favorite mexican food... hope the baby likes it spicy.
hopefully we can figure out a way to share the ultrasound pics with you sometime soon.
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
the dean's watch
i had read the scent of water some years ago at the suggestion of a friend, so i decided to crack open the dean's watch. goudge did not disappoint, introducing me to lovely people who were imperfect, struggling, yet made me want to be a better person... loving people better & living in each moment for better reasons.
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
heading back...

above is a resent satelite picture of Northern Thailand.
from space, you see large grey areas... where the land continues to be burned.
we've heard all kinds of interesting reasons why this happens... everything from spiritual beliefs that it causes prosperity for the next crop, to animal poachers, to people growing mushrooms that only thrive on a burnt forest floor. not to mention that the common way of getting rid of trash (everything from leaves to rubber tires) is to put it in a big pile & burn it.
though air quality levels in Chiang Mai are still not ideal, they have tapered off a bit... so we are leaving our little haven at The Pines for Bangkok tomorrow & heading back to Chiang Mai by the end of the week... we will reclaim our dog (the Haleys are getting out of town for vacation), pay our bills, and pray that the air quality will continue to prove.
here's a bit of encouraging news...
Chiang Mai exits disaster zone
Chiang Mai Governor Wichai Srikwan Friday removed the "disaster-zone" label from his province in a move that looks set to revive local tourism and relieve local people's worry. The move was now possible given the fact that the haze already stopped hovering over this northern province. In the face of smog crisis, Chiang Mai was among the northern provinces being declared "disaster zone" earlier this month. "We hope to relieve the worry of Chiang Mai residents and boost tourism in the run up to Songkran Festival," Wichai said. The festival will begin on April 13.
The Nation http://www.nationmultimedia.com/breakingnews/read.php?newsid=30030090
Friday, March 23, 2007
still waiting...

we continue to hear interesting reports of how they are trying to clean the air... the latest & greatest was to load a fire truck (in its entirety) onto a large military airplane from which it sprayed water onto the city.
in the meantime, we are working from a WI-FIed beach near Hua Hin, catching up on Veggie Tales (Sumos of the Opera gets 2 enthusiastic thumbs up), eating lots of good food, reading, & feeling baby B poke around a bit... very fun!
some people have enquired as to how Ginger is getting on without us... our friends, the Haleys (well mostly their son, Gabe, pictured), have stepped in to care for her in our absence... Mike was a little sad to see this pic -- whenever he tries to lay on Ginger this way, she looks very sad & makes a strange noise.
by the way, one of her puppies, Cebu, just had 9 puppies (3 months after running away from her owner & finding a home among the strays of a Thai park for a week or so)... maybe we'll have pictures later.
Sunday, March 18, 2007
temporary home

over the weekend air quality in the North improved slightly, only to deteriorate again as officials are unable to control the burning. http://www.bangkokpost.com/News/19Mar2007_news04.php
we've found a missionary guesthouse (out of the smog) to stay at until the air goes back to a less unhealthy quality... it's a bit rustic (no flushing toilets), but very peaceful & we can work from here (there IS internet)... we're just thankful for something affordable & available!
here's where we are until it's safe to breathe in chiang mai:
http://www.thailandhavens.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=15&Itemid=29
in case you are interested, below is an excerpt from the latest message from the US Embassy regarding the air quality crisis:
Warden Message
March 15, 2007
This message alerts American citizens living in or visiting northern Thailand to the need to take appropriate health-related precautions due to the unhealthful air quality northern Thailand is currently experiencing. Air quality experts report that excessive trash burning, brush clearing, forest fires and other factors have resulted in severe air contamination in the areas surrounding Chiang Mai. According to the Pollution Control Department of the Ministry of Natural Resources and Environment, air pollution levels in Chiang Mai have exceeded the maximum acceptable level since the beginning of March. On March 14, the level of particulate matter in the air exceeded the “emergency” level. Measurements at or near the “emergency” level are expected for at least the next several days.
Day-by-day particulate matter (PM 10) and air quality statistics are available in English on the Pollution Control Department website at http://www.pcd.go.th/AirQuality/Regional/Default.cfm and at the consulate’s website, http://bangkok.usembassy.gov/consulcm/index.htm.
American Citizen Services (ACS)
U.S. Embassy Bangkok
95 Wireless Road, Bangkok 10330, Thailand
Friday, March 16, 2007
clearing the air
thankfully (i guess, for us) we returned to bangkok this week, after being out of the country for work, to reports of the deteriorating air quality & the interesting attempts to improve the situation -- anything from blowing water into the air to increase humidity & seeding the clouds for rain to telling the outdoor bbq-ers to stop cooking for a while. the government has actually called for people to start the thai water-throwing festival, sonkran, 2 weeks early in order to help. there has been little improvement, as chiang mai is in a valley (where pollution settles, accumulates, and worsens) & nothing but lots of good, constant rain (not usually predicted until may or june) will clear things out.
in my delicate situation, mike has decided to keep me in bangkok & out of the "garbage air" up north, while he goes back to get some work stuff done & gather a few things so we can work from down south until things hopefully clear (can you imagine going to bangkok for "fresh" air???). he'll be back in a day, and we'll travel to a guesthouse and pray for rain.
for more info, here's couple of articles...
http://www.nationmultimedia.com/search/page.news.php?clid=2&id=30029266
http://www.nationmultimedia.com/search/page.news.php?clid=3&id=30029309
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20070313/sc_afp/thailandenvironment_070313105934
Some U.S. based Air Quality listings….
http://www.airnow.gov/index.cfm?action=airnow.fcsummary
Thailand's...
http://www.pcd.go.th/AirQuality/Regional/Default.cfm
Friday, February 23, 2007
baby pics
The baby looks great… about 8 cm long (normal for 12 weeks), heart beating, good looking face, & plenty of amniotic fluid! Yay!
here's what an ultrasound looks like at 12 weeks.... (Baby B is a little fatter :)
http://z.about.com/d/pregnancy/1/0/-/C/05us12a.jpg
here's what the fancy 3-D pics look like that you can get done in the States now... (has anyone actually had one done?)
http://www.vanderbilt.edu/SFL/images/12weeks001.jpg
i thought it would be fun to ask for suggestions for baby names... we're especially stumped on girls' names (the sex will be a surprise!). ideas??
Thursday, February 22, 2007
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
In case you haven't heard...
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
earthquake

magnitude 4.7
useless info
1. Where were you 1 hour ago?upstairs reading the end of jane eyre... why did no one tell me it was so depressing & so good! (trying to stay off my sprained ankle & get rid of a sore throat)...
2. Who will be your next kiss?mike
3. Is there anything pink within 10 feet of you?Yes, my cell phone & my house slippers
4. Are you wearing socks right now?no
5. When was the last time you went out of town?last weekend to chiang doa for our 4th anniversary!
6. Have you been to the movies in the last 5 days?No
7. What was the last thing you had to drink?blueberry, pineapple & banana strawberry smoothie
8. What are you wearing right now?cargo pants & a black shirt
9. Have you been in a car wash in the past week?No
10. Last food you ate?tom yum ramen
11. Where were you last week on Saturday?eating yummy food at chiang dao nest
12. Have you bought any clothing items in the last week?does an ankle brace count?
13. When is the last time you ran? as in exercise?
14. Whats your favorite Color?dark brown
15. What is your favorite age you have been?30
16. Your dream vacation spot? anywhere quiet with mike &/or another good friend
17.What color is your carpet? wood
18. How old are your parents? i think they'll appreciate my silence on this
20. Do you miss anyone?of course!
21. Last play you saw? "Doc's Holiday" (school play).. before that, phantom in Orlando
22. What are your plans for tomorrow?pack up my house
23. What is to the right of You? a library copy of jane eyre, my 2006 calendar, & a dining room chair that no longer belongs to me
24. Ever go to camp? not really... i was a counselor once for a week in college
25. Are you an honor roll student in school? i was
26. What do you want to know about the future?what i will be doing in a year... but not really
27. Are you hungry?a little
28. Where is your best friend located?mostly in the US
29. Do you have a tan? was born this way... not very, though
30. How old do you want to be when you have kids? ?
31. Do you collect anything? stuff to make stuff with... sometimes i actually do
32. Last time you got stopped by a cop? summer of 2000, lake tahoe
33. Have you ever drank your soda from a straw? whenever i can
34.Do you have any chores? ha!
35. Do you like hot sauce? yep
36. Last time you took a shower?last night
37. Who do you have a crush on?my husband when he's doing outdoor things
38. What is your mood? a little melancholoy after jane
39. Are you someone's best friend?hope so :)
40. What's the last book you read? jane eyre, charlotte bronte
Oh and as an extra:41. song currently stuck in your head?none, thankfully
Saturday, December 02, 2006
asking questions...
on that list is a book a co-worker recommended & gave to us that i've found really interesting... can you hear me? tuning into the God who speaks. by brad jersak
while he comes from a slightly different perspective than i am used to, i've gotten a lot out of his writings... and have been challenged to listen for God's voice & expect to hear Him speak to me... through things like scripture, my pastor, or even an urge to pray for or encourage someone... everyday things we may dismiss as just our own thoughts.
while waiting for mike in bangkok airport last weekend, i did a little exercise he suggested... he called it asking God "friendship questions". it seemed a little weird at first, but i felt prompted (by God??) to give it a go & try the author's suggested list of things to ask God, as my friend (John 15:15):
- What's grieving You these days? Why?
- What's exciting You these days? Why?
- What do you like about me? Why?
- What do You see when You look at me?
- When was the last time You wept over me? Why?
- When was the last time You laughed over me? Why?
- If You could meet me anywhere face-to-face where would it be?
- If my heart is Your home, what does it look like?
- If You could play a game with me, what would it be? Why?
He encourages us to pray first for the peace of God in our hearts & minds, then not to analyze too much or try to "get it right" as we listen for God's answers... He says that anytime we listen to God, we should always dismiss anything that does not line up with Scripture, but take confidence in Jesus' promise that we will be able to discern His voice (John 10) if we are His sheep.
I am not a person who regularly "hears" God... but as i asked Him the questions above, though i didn't hear an audible voice, i did have a very clear impression of His answers in the form of thoughts in my head... it was really surprising! some of the answers spoke very directly to some struggles & fears i was having at the time, though i was not expecting them to. i think i'd like to ask questions & listen more often now!
i hope you'll try it & be surprised, too, by our God who longs for us to have a very personal relationship with Him. let me know if you do!
Friday, December 01, 2006
thoughts on crutches
When I was a little girl, I remember finding a pair of crutches (left over from some family member's unfortunate incedent) and being completely entertained the rest of the day leaping across the house with them. a few thoughts on this:
1. when you are not injured, crutches are great.
2. if you lose your balance while on said crutches, you have two good feet to land on.
3. when you get tired or your armpits hurt or the crutches are no longer convenient, you can lean them against a wall and continue regular mobility.
last weekend in bangkok, mike & i were walking back to the guesthouse from the hospital (we had our annual check ups & we are very healthy!), when i stepped onto an uneven section of sidewalk (these are plentiful throughout the kingdom)... my foot rolled outward, and i heard a loud snap. i was able to walk for a bit until the pain got too bad & mike got us a taxi for the the last 1/2 mile or so (a very well-spent dollar). i got out of the taxi & hopped into the guesthouse... then i hopped up the stairs and down the hall to our room. The next day, I hopped some more getting ready for the airport, where mike wheeled me on the luggage cart (fun!) to the airport "hospital" where a well-dressed staff person told us they did not have crutches, but could order some from a nearby hospital. After a smiling doctor examined my foot & said it was probably ligaments (only "10% chance" it's broken), my crutches arrived 30 minutes later in a flashing ambulence. Even though I gave my height in cm (165, if anyone is curious) to the hospital, and 6 well-dressed staff people attempted to make adjustments (mike ended up having to do it), as hard as everyone tried, the crutches were still too short for this giant farang (the thais call all foreigners that... it literally means "french.".. mike LOVES it). so they ordered some more crutches in a bigger size which arrived another half-hour later... they would have to do as is, because we needed to proceed to the gate. I was then escorted to my plane in a wheel chair, which was a very nice experience until i had to get out of the chair & make it down to my seat on the crutches (which were still too short). a few more thoughts on this:
1. it's hard to get around on crutches when your "good leg" is extremely sore because you've spent the last 24 hours hopping around on it.
2. it's harder to get around on crutches when one foot hurts so badly that you can't touch your toes to the ground.
3. the aisle of an airplane is not the best place to test-drive crutches, in general.
so, now i am home... resting and trying to perform the basic functions of life one must do even while "resting". it's amazing how we take for granted that our feet work & our hands don't have to contribute to the process of "getting around". more thoughts:
1. crutches are hard to get around on, and easy to lose your balance with.
2. crutches make a bad substitute for legs, but a good substitute for hands in limited situations (ex. they are good for pushing things around on the floor, but bad for carrying bowls of soup).
3. ginger seems confused, but happy in a strange way, that i now, too, have 4 legs.